<\/a>ch\u01b0a nghi\u00eam\u201d, m\u00e0 c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9t g\u00e3y trong k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i c\u1ea3m x\u00fac gi\u1eefa m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con, thi\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng, thi\u1ebfu h\u00ecnh m\u1eabu nam v\u00e0 \u00e1p l\u1ef1c t\u1eeb c\u1ea3 hai ph\u00eda. V\u1eady t\u1ea1i sao c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ee9t g\u00e3y n\u00e0y v\u00e0 c\u00f3 gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p g\u00ec kh\u00f4ng? Ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd c\u00f9ng ph\u00e2n t\u00edch d\u01b0\u1edbi g\u00f3c nh\u00ecn t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc nh\u00e9!<\/p>\n\n\n\n1. S\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u00e2m sinh l\u00fd tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec (11 – 16 tu\u1ed5i)<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
\u0110\u1ea7u ti\u00ean, theo c\u00e1c nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u th\u1ea7n kinh h\u1ecdc, n\u00e3o b\u1ed9 \u1edf tu\u1ed5i v\u1ecb th\u00e0nh ni\u00ean c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd \u1edf v\u00f9ng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac (amygdala), nh\u01b0ng v\u00f9ng ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t h\u00e0nh vi v\u00e0 l\u00fd tr\u00ed (prefrontal cortex) l\u1ea1i ch\u01b0a ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
– H\u00e0nh vi b\u1ed1c \u0111\u1ed3ng, ph\u1ea3n kh\u00e1ng, d\u1ec5 b\u1ecb cu\u1ed1n v\u00e0o c\u1ea3m x\u00fac (t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn, b\u1ea5t m\u00e3n, kho\u00e1i c\u1ea3m t\u1eeb game, m\u1ea1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i\u2026).<\/p>\n\n\n\n
– Kh\u00f4ng nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y h\u1ec7 qu\u1ea3 d\u00e0i h\u1ea1n, \u01b0u ti\u00ean kho\u00e1i c\u1ea3m t\u1ee9c th\u1eddi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
– R\u1ea5t nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c, d\u1ec5 n\u1ed5i lo\u1ea1n n\u1ebfu c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
2. Vai tr\u00f2 c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9 \u0111\u01a1n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 m\u00f4 h\u00ecnh thi\u1ebfu v\u1eafng cha.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
L\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u01a1n th\u00e2n bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n. L\u00e0 m\u1eb9 \u0111\u01a1n th\u00e2n c\u1ee7a con trai tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec l\u1ea1i c\u00e0ng kh\u00f3. Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf c\u00e1c nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi v\u1ec1 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y cho th\u1ea5y:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
– Tr\u1ebb nam l\u1edbn l\u00ean trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111\u01a1n th\u00e2n do m\u1eb9 nu\u00f4i c\u00f3 nguy c\u01a1 cao h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 h\u00e0nh vi ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i, thi\u1ebfu ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, v\u00e0 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong m\u00f4 h\u00ecnh h\u00f3a nam t\u00ednh l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
– Trong nh\u1eefng gia \u0111\u00ecnh m\u1eb9 \u0111\u01a1n th\u00e2n, ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 th\u01b0\u1eddng v\u1eeba l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u0103m s\u00f3c \u2013 an \u1ee7i v\u1eeba l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt, g\u00e2y ra m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn vai tr\u00f2. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn t\u1edbi:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
+ Con kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n nh\u00ecn m\u1eb9 nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00f4 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 th\u1ea5y nh\u01b0 \u201ck\u1ebb ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
+ S\u1ef1 m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi v\u00e0 lo \u00e2u k\u00e9o d\u00e0i c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9 d\u1ec5 t\u1ea1o c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i, gi\u1eadn d\u1eef, ho\u1eb7c ki\u1ec7t s\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
3. V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1ec1 g\u1eafn b\u00f3 v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Theo l\u00fd thuy\u1ebft g\u1eafn b\u00f3 trong t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc, v\u1edbi tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 \u0111\u01a1n th\u00e2n n\u00e0y, m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 gi\u1ea3 thi\u1ebft c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y ra:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
– N\u1ebfu m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 g\u1eafn b\u00f3 ban \u0111\u1ea7u (\u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t 0\u20136 tu\u1ed5i) kh\u00f4ng an to\u00e0n, \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t qua h\u00e0nh vi n\u1ed5i lo\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
– Gi\u1ea3 thi\u1ebft th\u01b0\u1eddng trong ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh m\u1eb9 \u0111\u01a1n th\u00e2n c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, n\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 thi\u1ebfu ngu\u1ed3n l\u1ef1c c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh, h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, th\u00ec kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng cung c\u1ea5p m\u1ed9t \u201cn\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng an to\u00e0n\u201d, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t trong giai \u0111o\u1ea1n 0-6 cho con c\u0169ng b\u1ecb gi\u1ea3m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
– Con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u00e0nh x\u1eed ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch k\u00eau c\u1ee9u ho\u1eb7c gi\u00e0nh l\u1ea5y quy\u1ec1n t\u1ef1 ch\u1ee7, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t khi c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh \u201cb\u1ecb sai khi\u1ebfn\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
4. Ph\u00e2n t\u00edch h\u00e0nh vi: V\u00ec sao ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 r\u0103n \u0111e, t\u00e2m t\u00ecnh, \u0111\u01b0a con \u0111i thi\u1ec7n nguy\u1ec7n v.v. M\u00e0 con v\u1eabn ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed x\u00f4 m\u1eb9 ng\u00e3 khi m\u1eb9 t\u1ecbch thu m\u00e1y t\u00ednh?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
– V\u00ec \u201ct\u00e2m t\u00ecnh\u201d kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 n\u1ebfu m\u1ed1i g\u1eafn b\u00f3 s\u00e2u \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ee9t g\u00e3y: Tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n ch\u1ec9 hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 khi m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u00f3 n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng an to\u00e0n v\u00e0 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng. N\u1ebfu tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n xung \u0111\u1ed9t, m\u1eafng m\u1ecf, th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng, th\u00ec trong l\u00f2ng con \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 \u201cb\u1ee9c t\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00e1ng\u201d v\u1edbi m\u1eb9. L\u00fac \u0111\u00f3, d\u00f9 m\u1eb9 n\u00f3i hay, con c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
– V\u00ec con c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb \u201cgi\u00e1o hu\u1ea5n\u201d h\u01a1n l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eafng nghe: R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u \u201ccu\u1ed9c n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n\u201d m\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 ngh\u0129 l\u00e0 t\u00e2m t\u00ecnh th\u1ef1c ra l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng bu\u1ed5i \u201cnh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng r\u0103n d\u1ea1y\u201d, khi\u1ebfn con th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh b\u1ecb ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t. Tr\u1ebb tu\u1ed5i teen c\u1ef1c k\u1ef3 nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c b\u1ecb d\u1ea1y \u0111\u1eddi, d\u00f9 c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i c\u00f3 m\u1ec1m \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2u.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
– V\u00ec tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ea1m \u0111\u00fang c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ed1t l\u00f5i: Cho con \u0111i l\u00e0m thi\u1ec7n nguy\u1ec7n, tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng\u2026 r\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t, nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu con v\u1eabn \u0111ang t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng, n\u1ed5i lo\u1ea1n v\u00ec thi\u1ebfu k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i \u1edf nh\u00e0, th\u00ec nh\u1eefng ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 ch\u1eefa l\u00e0nh. Tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i, nh\u01b0ng mu\u1ed1n thay \u0111\u1ed5i h\u00e0nh vi, c\u1ea7n t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0o m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 s\u00e2u b\u00ean trong.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
– V\u00ec ni\u1ec1m tin r\u1eb1ng \u201cch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng l\u00e0 con s\u1ebd thay \u0111\u1ed5i\u201d c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u1ea3n t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng: Tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng \u2013 lo \u00e2u \u2013 th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng trong \u00e1nh m\u1eaft cha m\u1eb9, v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00f4i khi khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang c\u00e0ng \u00e1p l\u1ef1c, c\u00e0ng mu\u1ed1n \u201ctho\u00e1t ra\u201d. C\u00f3 l\u00fac \u0111i\u1ec1u con c\u1ea7n l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn, d\u00f9 \u0111ang r\u1ea5t \u201ckh\u00e1c th\u01b0\u1eddng\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
– H\u00e0nh vi x\u00f4 m\u1eb9 ng\u00e3 l\u00e0 d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u b\u00e1o \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n l\u00e0 v\u00f4 \u01a1n hay b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c. \u1ede tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec, khi tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t c\u1ea3m x\u00fac \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn, t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn hay b\u1ea5t l\u1ef1c, c\u00e1c em c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u201ch\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng b\u1ed1c \u0111\u1ed3ng\u201d \u0111\u1ec3 x\u1ea3 ra \u00e1p l\u1ef1c n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 con c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi duy nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u201ctr\u00fat gi\u1eadn\u201d, v\u00ec bi\u1ebft m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecf r\u01a1i m\u00ecnh. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 \u0111au l\u00f2ng, nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i cho th\u1ea5y m\u1ed1i li\u00ean k\u1ebft s\u00e2u (d\u00f9 b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng) v\u1eabn c\u00f2n \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u00f3i chung, d\u00f9 bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i l\u00e0 \u201cb\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c\u201d, \u201cch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i\u201d, v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 \u0111ang th\u1ea5y con thi\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c hay k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 h\u1ec7 qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ho\u1eb7c m\u1ed9t trong c\u00e1c y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 nh\u01b0:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
+ C\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng k\u00e9o d\u00e0i trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 m\u1eb9 con.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
+ C\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c m\u1ea5t ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t, m\u1ea5t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng h\u01b0\u1edbng, thi\u1ebfu h\u00ecnh m\u1eabu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
+ Thi\u1ebfu m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau s\u1ed1ng, \u0111\u1eafm ch\u00ecm v\u00e0o game\/m\u1ea1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i nh\u01b0 n\u01a1i thay th\u1ebf cho s\u1ef1 ghi nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 an to\u00e0n c\u1ea3m x\u00fac.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
5. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 t\u1eebng b\u01b0\u1edbc k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi con.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
– T\u1ea1m d\u1eebng \u201cgi\u00e1o hu\u1ea5n\u201d, t\u1eadp trung kh\u00f4i ph\u1ee5c k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i c\u1ea3m x\u00fac Thay v\u00ec n\u00f3i nhi\u1ec1u, l\u00e0m qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ee9ng minh \u0111\u00fang \u2013 sai, h\u00e3y g\u1eedi t\u00edn hi\u1ec7u an to\u00e0n: \u201cM\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n con \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd h\u1ebft v\u1edbi m\u1eb9, m\u1eb9 ch\u1ec9 mu\u1ed1n hi\u1ec3u con \u0111ang c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y g\u00ec.\u201d \u0110\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t c\u1ea7n tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u1ed1i \u0111\u1ea7u l\u00fac con \u0111ang n\u00f3ng gi\u1eadn. Ch\u1ec9 n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n khi c\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u00e3 b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh v\u1edbi th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng: \u201c\u0110i\u1ec1u g\u00ec l\u00e0m con th\u1ea5y ng\u1ed9t ng\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c nh\u01b0 v\u1eady?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
– Thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp l\u1ea1i ranh gi\u1edbi m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t, kh\u00f4ng bu\u00f4ng xu\u00f4i: Ranh gi\u1edbi ph\u1ea3i r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng, nh\u1ea5t qu\u00e1n, nh\u01b0ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn c\u00f9ng con \u0111\u1ec3 con c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng (gi\u1edd ng\u1ee7, th\u1eddi gian d\u00f9ng thi\u1ebft b\u1ecb, gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n h\u00e0nh vi\u2026). \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng nh\u01b0 x\u00f4 m\u1eb9 ng\u00e3, c\u1ea7n n\u00f3i r\u00f5: \u201cM\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng cho ph\u00e9p ai l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1eb9 – k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 con. N\u1ebfu con gi\u1eadn, con h\u00e3y cho m\u1eb9 bi\u1ebft v\u00e0 m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u00e0n v\u1ec1 chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y m\u1ed9t l\u00fac kh\u00e1c”.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
– L\u00e0m b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi c\u1ee7a con: Thay v\u00ec t\u00e2m t\u00ecnh v\u00e0 c\u1ed1 ch\u1ec9 cho con th\u1ea5y \u0111\u00fang sai, xen nh\u1eefng rao gi\u1ea3ng \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c, h\u00e3y d\u00e0nh 15\u201330 ph\u00fat m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 \u1edf b\u00ean con, kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n h\u1ecdc, kh\u00f4ng d\u1ea1y b\u1ea3o. Ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n c\u00f9ng xem phim, nghe nh\u1ea1c, ch\u01a1i game, \u0103n v\u1eb7t\u2026 \u0110\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u con th\u00edch g\u00ec, t\u1ea1i sao con th\u00edch ch\u01a1i game, tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 game n\u00e0o con \u0111ang ch\u01a1i. M\u1ee5c ti\u00eau l\u00e0 l\u00e0m m\u1edbi m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7: \u0111\u1ec3 con th\u1ea5y m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ra l\u1ec7nh v\u00e0 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t, m\u00e0 ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh mong mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
– Chuy\u1ec3n t\u1eeb ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t sang chia s\u1ebb: Thay v\u00ec v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t con khi n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n \u201cCon kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng m\u1eb9\u201d, h\u00e3y th\u1eed b\u1ed9c l\u1ed9 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac th\u1eadt c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh: \u201cM\u1eb9 bu\u1ed3n v\u00e0 b\u1ea5t l\u1ef1c v\u00ec c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c con n\u1eefa.\u201d Tu\u1ed5i teen r\u1ea5t nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t. Khi m\u1eb9 n\u00f3i b\u1eb1ng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac th\u1eadt, con s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 l\u1eafng nghe h\u01a1n l\u00e0 khi b\u1ecb ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u00e0i l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u tr\u1ebb v\u1eabn ph\u1ea3n kh\u00e1ng, nh\u01b0ng khi th\u1ea5y m\u1eb9 lu\u00f4n nh\u1ea5t qu\u00e1n trong vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t con, con s\u1ebd d\u1ea7n tin t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0 m\u1edf l\u00f2ng v\u1edbi m\u1eb9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
– T\u00ecm h\u00ecnh m\u1eabu nam l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh: L\u00e0 m\u1eb9 \u0111\u01a1n th\u00e2n, nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u1ea1o k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam \u0111\u00e1ng tin c\u1eady: c\u1eadu, b\u00e1c, th\u1ea7y gi\u00e1o, hu\u1ea5n luy\u1ec7n vi\u00ean\u2026 M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam gi\u1edbi t\u1eed t\u1ebf c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap con h\u00ecnh dung v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai \u2013 \u0111i\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 kh\u00f3 l\u00e0m thay \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i m\u1ecdi tr\u1ebb nam \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ea7n \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 v\u1eabn lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ec1 ngu\u1ed3n l\u1ef1c t\u00edch c\u1ef1c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
– \u01afu ti\u00ean s\u1ee9c kho\u1ebb t\u00e2m l\u00fd cho ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh: L\u00e0m m\u1eb9 \u0111\u01a1n th\u00e2n l\u00e0 h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3. N\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 th\u1ea5y ki\u1ec7t s\u1ee9c v\u1edbi vai tr\u00f2 n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec \u0111\u00e1ng x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5 c\u1ea3. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3. T\u00ecm m\u1ed9t nh\u00f3m ph\u1ee5 huynh \u0111\u01a1n th\u00e2n, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tin t\u01b0\u1edfng ho\u1eb7c \u00edt nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ee7 tin c\u1eady \u0111\u1ec3 chia s\u1ebb, gi\u1ea3m \u00e1p l\u1ef1c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
– Ki\u00ean tr\u00ec nh\u01b0ng m\u1ec1m m\u1ecfng. N\u00f3i chung, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00f4ng th\u1ee9c n\u00e0o s\u1eeda con \u201cngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c\u201d. H\u00e3y ki\u00ean \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u1edbi v\u00e0i nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc c\u1ed1t l\u00f5i, v\u00e0 lu\u00f4n m\u1edf c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i. Con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng g\u00ec tr\u01b0\u1edbc n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9, nh\u01b0ng l\u00f2ng tin \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u00e2y l\u1ea1i t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u nh\u1ecf \u2013 m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat. S\u1ef1 ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn l\u00e0 chia kho<\/p>\n\n\n\n
T\u00f3m l\u1ea1i, cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1eebng c\u1ed1 s\u1eeda con, m\u00e0 n\u00ean c\u1edfi m\u1edf \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng l\u1ea1i m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi con! Ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f2n \u0111\u1ec3 con c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y cha m\u1eb9 \u0111ang c\u1ed1 s\u1eeda m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ” s\u1ea3n ph\u1ea9m l\u1ed7i ” th\u00ec s\u1ef1 ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i ch\u1ec9 c\u00e0ng nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n. \u1ede \u0111\u00e2y, s\u1ef1 ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn l\u00e0 c\u1ed1t l\u00f5i, ki\u00ean tr\u00ec v\u00e0 m\u1ec1m m\u1ecfng. H\u00e3y ki\u00ean \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u1edbi v\u00e0i nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc c\u1ed1t l\u00f5i, v\u00e0 lu\u00f4n m\u1edf c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i. Con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng g\u00ec tr\u01b0\u1edbc n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9, nh\u01b0ng ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn l\u00f2ng tin s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u00e2y l\u1ea1i t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u nh\u1ecf \u2013 m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y, t\u1eebng ch\u00fat m\u1ed9t, ch\u00fat m\u1ed9t.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec \u1edf cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u01a1n th\u00e2n. H\u00f4m nay m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u00e0i b\u00e1o n\u00e0y. C\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":247,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"single-with-left-sidebar","format":"standard","meta":{"_price":"","_stock":"","_tribe_ticket_header":"","_tribe_default_ticket_provider":"","_ticket_start_date":"","_ticket_end_date":"","_tribe_ticket_show_description":"","_tribe_ticket_show_not_going":false,"_tribe_ticket_use_global_stock":"","_tribe_ticket_global_stock_level":"","_global_stock_mode":"","_global_stock_cap":"","_tribe_rsvp_for_event":"","_tribe_ticket_going_count":"","_tribe_ticket_not_going_count":"","_tribe_tickets_list":"[]","_tribe_ticket_has_attendee_info_fields":false,"_EventAllDay":false,"_EventTimezone":"","_EventStartDate":"","_EventEndDate":"","_EventStartDateUTC":"","_EventEndDateUTC":"","_EventShowMap":false,"_EventShowMapLink":false,"_EventURL":"","_EventCost":"","_EventCostDescription":"","_EventCurrencySymbol":"","_EventCurrencyCode":"","_EventCurrencyPosition":"","_EventDateTimeSeparator":"","_EventTimeRangeSeparator":"","_EventOrganizerID":[],"_EventVenueID":[],"_OrganizerEmail":"","_OrganizerPhone":"","_OrganizerWebsite":"","_VenueAddress":"","_VenueCity":"","_VenueCountry":"","_VenueProvince":"","_VenueState":"","_VenueZip":"","_VenuePhone":"","_VenueURL":"","_VenueStateProvince":"","_VenueLat":"","_VenueLng":"","_VenueShowMap":false,"_VenueShowMapLink":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-529","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-goc-nhin-tlh"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/chuyengiatamlyhoanghanh.tamlymienhaidang.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/529","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/chuyengiatamlyhoanghanh.tamlymienhaidang.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/chuyengiatamlyhoanghanh.tamlymienhaidang.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chuyengiatamlyhoanghanh.tamlymienhaidang.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chuyengiatamlyhoanghanh.tamlymienhaidang.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=529"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/chuyengiatamlyhoanghanh.tamlymienhaidang.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/529\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":530,"href":"https:\/\/chuyengiatamlyhoanghanh.tamlymienhaidang.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/529\/revisions\/530"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chuyengiatamlyhoanghanh.tamlymienhaidang.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/247"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/chuyengiatamlyhoanghanh.tamlymienhaidang.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=529"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chuyengiatamlyhoanghanh.tamlymienhaidang.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=529"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chuyengiatamlyhoanghanh.tamlymienhaidang.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=529"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}